The basic idea behind the blow job pattern is to get the other person turned on to the idea of oral sensation and oral pleasure, and then attach that feeling and that pleasure to your own genitals so they want to go down on you.
Basically, you ellicit the state of oral sensation and pleasure - for instance, some food they like, and you ANCHOR that state. Anchoring is sort of like Pavlovian conditioning, although many times a well placed anchor only needs to be set once in order to trigger it again.
Phobias are are examples of "one-time anchoring".
Also, if your partner is hesitant to give you oral pleasure because of some previous past bad experience they've had with it, that's ALSO an example of "one-time anchoring" working against you to keep you from getting what you want, in this case a good blow job. See, sometimes she might have had a previous experience of giving a blow job, and either the guy smelled bad, tasted bad, or she had a natural gag reflex and was just plain grossed out for some reason.
Or maybe the visual pictures she's having about that goo shooting all over her grosses her out. It's just an example of a negative state anchored to her internal beliefs and representations about giving you a blow job.
But since you're a caring, considerate, compassionate type of guy, you want to make sure she actually ENJOYS giving you blow jobs.
So part of doing the blow job patterns is to learn to anchor pleasure responses to her thoughts of going down on you and giving you a blow job.
(If you need to know how to collapse previous negative anchors she might have, I do have an ebook on anchoring called "The Amazing GPS Of The Mind".)
So anyway, you elicit the pleasure state and then anchor that to your dick so your partner experiences sensations of oral pleasure and oral craving of going down on you.
There are, of course, things you can do to help this out: being clean, washed, smelling good, perhaps shaving down there.
You can set the anchor either by talking about something she likes eating OR by setting anchors while you are on a dinner date with her and she's actually eating something she enjoys.
Some guys like to just recite canned patterns on women. That works ok for the type of woman who likes to be talked to and "overwhelmed" by someone. However, I find it's often times more fun to be with someone who likes to participate in the experience and make it her own. Incidentally, that type of woman will also tend to give you a much better blow job.
So you can either create patterns that are descriptions of oral pleasure from food, or you can get her to describe her own favorite foods or something she just can't resist or likes to indulge herself in. So basically, you're looking for her own experiences of oral compulsion. For some women it's chocolate, for others it's their favorite latte or capuccino, for others it's a bavarian creme donut.
You know when they roll their eyes back up in their head with pleasure at either the taste of something or the memory of what something tastes like that you've got a STRONG experience there to anchor.
Here's a video clip I put on youtube.com that you might enjoy also. Click the play button to play the video:
There's much more you can do to attach feelings of pleasure and orgasm to her giving you a good blow job, including anchoring feelings of fun and laughter.
You want to make sure you set it up so SHE is the one who gets pleasure from giving you the blow job instead of just begging her or demanding one of her because it's "her duty".
Trust me: you'll enjoy the blow job MUCH more when she is the one who is getting immense pleasure from going down on you.
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Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg